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03-31-2018 Posting my Path

Posted on March 31, 2018 Written by Alan Thomas Leave a Comment

03/28/18
Stage 1
Day 28
of the Extreme Accountability Ultra Marathon
Start Date 03/04/18
Re-Starting weight 195 pounds
Today’s weight 196.2 pounds
Destination weight 175
Destination Date 04/23/18
18.2 pounds to destination
Stage 2 staying at or below Destination Weight for 365 days
If you have noticed, I haven’t been posting my scales lately, it wasn’t Facebook’s new algorithm, it was me. After losing 129 pounds in 8 months in 2017,  I’ve slid back into some of my old patterns. I could easily be happy with the size that I am now, not because it’s the best for me but because it’s so much better than where I was in weight and health a little over a year ago.
I know that many people believe that the number on the scales doesn’t matter, but guess what it does. Sure there are non-scale victories, but let’s face it, if you or I don’t win the war with the scales those non-scale victories will disappear also. So guess what, what I weigh and what you weigh matters. Not for the number but for your overall health and giving you the ability to achieve all of those non-scale victories.
I am ecstatic with weighing over 100 pounds less than I did in March 2017, but 175 pounds was my original destination weight and still is. In order for me to reach 175 pounds last year, I did what was necessary to get the weight off, I used a healthy plan and my doctor, family, and I were all thrilled.
I have changed my lifestyle and many of my habits dramatically since beginning this journey in March 2017,  but the desires and cravings that resulted in the 304 pound man called Alan Thomas are still there. They don’t just magically disappear.
I get asked fairly often, how did you lose so much weight so fast? Those that are asking probably want the same thing that you and I want, a weight loss lottery ticket, the winning one. I know because I looked for it so long. It does exist. I’m telling you that I have the answer. Now I can hear those same voices responding with doubt, because deep down we all know there is no magic pill or lottery ticket to weight loss freedom, or is there?
It isn’t exercise, but I exercise 5 to 7 times per week now that I have lost weight, not because I have to, because I love how it makes me feel. I’m sure that if you are Michael Phelps or training like an Olympic athlete, you would lose weight with exercise. But the people that are holding a cheeseburger in one hand and a large Mountain Dew in the other probably aren’t heading to the next Olympic games. Also, while moving your body is helpful, exercise alone will likely not get a significant amount of weight off for most of us.
It really isn’t the diet either, but I want to be clear here, I lost weight because I used a healthy plan that I knew would work. Next to the magic pill that I am going to tell you about, the intake is where it’s at. Eating healthy and staying in a caloric deficit produced powerful results for me. I used a plan that got the results and worked, just like I knew it would, but without the magic, the results would have been very little and very temporary.
The magic pill or lottery ticket to weight loss is….. importance.  The importance that I am referring to is the level of importance that “you” place on getting healthy, fit, and yes to a reasonable weight for your height and build. If it is important enough to you or me we can find a way to get our weight off. I used Facebook posting and created the Extreme Accountability Challenge as my way of making it important.
Is that it???? I can hear you saying.
You sound like Dorothy when she found out who the Wizard of Oz was, the curtain that was pulled back, was so disappointing for her but let me explain.
While there are no guarantees, if you make your health and weight as important as it deserves, and keep the focus there from now on, you will be amazed at the results. If I told you that if you did without say…chocolate, or whatever derails your weight loss goals,  until you reached your dream weight, you could have $1,000,000. I bet you could do without chocolate. That’s because the $1m bucks would be slightly more important than the chocolate. Think about this, the importance to you really is the magic pill.
It’s simple but just because something is simple doesn’t make it easy. What makes the simple things that aren’t so easy to do achievable is importance.
And by the way if you die prematurely from an obesity related disease, you may miss making lots of $$$$ millions, not to mention all of the other joys of living. Be willing to do whatever it takes to get the weight off and get healthy.
I’m on my way back down and it’s Easter weekend. Big deal, I can have a chocolate Easter bunny if I want, chocolate is important after all!! My health is more important.
Be willing to do whatever it takes. Don’t trade what you want now for what you want most.
It may feel uncomfortable and scary at first but….
Remember comfort is overrated.
Get uncomfortable and take a chance and…
Press post then press forward.
My name is Alan Thomas and
I’m a husband, a father, a writer, a speaker, an entrepreneur, a coach, and I’m human.
I’ll never go back to the old me, never!

Filed Under: Daily Facebook Log

12/03/17 – 12/09/17 Days 263-269

Posted on December 9, 2017 Written by Alan Thomas Leave a Comment

12/03/17 through 12/09/17
Days 263 – 269 of the Extreme Accountability Challenge
Start Date 03/15/17
Starting weight 304 pounds
Reached 175 pounds on November 17, 2017, in 248 days
Total weight loss 129.0 pounds
The last 7 day’s weight  180.4, 177.2, 182.2, 184.2,-182.8, 181.4, 180.0 pounds
My healthy weight range 175 -179 pounds
Staying accountable for the long haul.
This past week has been a very different week than any week since March 15, 2017. On that week in March, I decided to radically change my health, no matter what. I drew a line in the sand, once and for all.
On that day, I weighed 298 pounds, down from my “high water mark” of 304 pounds in early March. Then I publicly committed to losing a total of 129 to get to 175 pounds before 11/22/17. On 11/17/17,  I reached that destination weight of 175 pounds. Everyday I posted my progress, the seemingly slow process of shedding a total of 129 pounds in 248 days.
This week my wife Angie and I visited our oldest son Blake in Denver. We had a great time catching up with him. What goes along with family and friends is normally sharing a meal or meals. Especially in a city like Denver, the choices seem endless.
I have traveled during the weight loss phase of my journey, but this was my first trip since hitting my destination weight of 175 pounds. I prefer to stay between 175 to 179 pounds. It’s pretty challenging to stay exactly 175 pounds every day, and I am happy with 175-179 pounds.
I have been transitioning my eating, allowing myself foods that I avoided while losing my weight. But the trip to Denver, from an eating perspective, was like going into enemy territory. There was every kind of food that you could imagine in a city the size of Denver, and in the past, this would have started a spiral of overeating that would have resulted in me inching up in my weight, saying that “I am still thin enough.” Never again will I allow myself to move in that direction.
Life is too precious to sell out for another bite of food.
I did partake in moderation of several foods that I haven’t had in a while.
Nachos
Pizza
Beer
Doughnuts
Mozzarella Sticks
Pimento cheese Dip
Chicken Wings
I’m probably leaving something out, but I hope you get the picture. I wasn’t watching everything that I ate. But I spent more time enjoying my family than focusing on what I would eat.
Yes I carried my scales on the trip and weighed every day. I knew that I would post the results today. That accountability is strong. I am choosing to remain open as I walk out this journey of permanent weight loss and optimal health.
As you can see, I am already back to the weight that I was before going to Denver.
I have been told by several people that I really trust, who personally have either lost a large amount of weight and kept it off for years or have overcome a battle with an addictive behavior. They are all in agreement that maintaining my weight loss is the hardest part of the journey. It seems that once I arrived, I could check it off my bucket list and eat what I want whenever I want. That’s just not really possible, while I called my goal weight my destination weight, it’s no longer a goal but it is a destination.
Maintaining a healthy, “best that I can be” health is a journey that will never end. We all have to fight for the life that we desire everyday.
I wish that I could just “set it and forget it” like a kitchen appliance, but that’s what led me to 304 pounds and morbid obesity.
I became intentional about my health this year and I don’t have weight loss even listed as a goal for 2018, but being the healthiest Alan possible is a goal that I will have forever.
To live life to the full, we have to be intentional, not obsessed. But if I ignore my health, finances, relationships, family, my mind, career, or my spiritual growth. I will certainly drift. It’s as though we are all out in the waves just “being” and the undertow slowly drifts us. It’s usually not that noticeable but before you know it you have moved off course, down the coastline to a place that you never intended to go.
While I have immense respect for my friends that tell me staying at my healthy weight is the greatest challenge, I disagree.
The hardest part is facing where you are when things seem hopeless and doing something about it. The starting point. The moment in time that you decide and take action, that’s the hardest part.
Wherever you are in whatever has happened to you, take responsibility for what you can control and start.
Those things that are beyond your control, well they are not for you to handle, only what you can control.
Start.
It may feel uncomfortable and scary at first but….
Remember comfort is overrated.
Get uncomfortable and take a chance and…
Press post then press forward.
My name is Alan Thomas and
I’m a writer, a speaker, and a life coach!
175 pounds I’m here to stay!!!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Day 215 10/16/17

Posted on October 17, 2017 Written by Alan Thomas Leave a Comment

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10/16/17
Day 215
Extreme Accountability Challenge
Today’s weight 192.8 pounds
Starting weight 304 pounds
Destination weight 175 pounds
Goal Date to achieve destination weight 11/22/17
Number of days until destination date 37
Total weight loss to date 111.2 pounds
17.8 pounds to go
Today is a bit unusual, I’m writing my post very late for me. It’s after 9pm Eastern time, I’m exhausted. It’s days like this that used to drive me straight into the pantry to scarf down anything that I could find. I would bring a bag of this or a bowl of that and disappear into a television show. What a waste. Nothing wrong with watching television and the occasional entertainment eating but we’re talking full blown addictive behavior.
Those desires still run through my head but I have so many reasons to stay the course. I am a different person today than I was before March 15, 2017, the weight loss in front of my Facebook world has changed everything.
Yesterday I proposed to Angie again, to renew our vows. I wanted it on video live in Facebook. I wanted her to know how much she is loved by me. I wanted our daughter Ashley to see her Dad loving her Mom. I loved Angie just as much at 304 pounds as I do today, but I just hated myself so much it made it hard to show anyone else the kind of love that they deserved.
Love everyone in your life enough to stop hating yourself and start by loving yourself back to health.
It all starts with you.
It may feel uncomfortable at first but….
Remember comfort is overrated.
Get uncomfortable and take a chance and…
Press post then press forward.
My name is Alan Thomas and
I’m a writer, a speaker, and a life coach!
175 pounds here I come!!!
www.postmypath.com

Filed Under: Daily Facebook Log

Day 214 10/15/17

Posted on October 15, 2017 Written by Alan Thomas Leave a Comment

 10/15/17
Day 214
Extreme Accountability Challenge
Today’s weight 193.0 pounds
Starting weight 304 pounds
Destination weight 175 pounds
Goal Date to achieve destination weight 11/22/17
Number of days until destination date 38
Total weight loss to date 111.0 pounds
18.0 pounds to go
Information is so readily available today, that’s a good thing, right? Yes absolutely, but it gave me the excuse to not take action regarding my obesity. There were so many choices in weight loss plans. I don’t think that I could list them all if I tried. The reality is that most of them work to some degree, many of them work very well. The challenge is to follow through and stick to the plan that you choose.
I am no different than anyone else that needs to lose weight.  I just wanted the weight off. But it doesn’t work that way. Sure I could take off 5 or 10 pounds pretty easily. But to get over 120 pounds off. That’s an ultra marathon.
I had to pick a plan and learn life long changes to get this weight off forever.
When I was used to eating everything in sight, 252 days of not cheating once is like running that ultra marathon.
A marathon is a little over 26 miles, an ultra marathon is a distance further than the traditional 26 mile marathon.
Last night when I was trying on some of my 19 year old sons clothing, because everything, even my skinny clothes, are way too big. The size 34’s fit nicely. I was a size 46 stretchy waistband guy 214 days ago. That’s a long way when I look back. The remaining 18 pounds are my ultra marathon pounds. I’m biking, going on long walks, many people don’t even recognize me, and I am sticking to my plan.
I don’t say this to boast, I say this because probably no one believed that I would get this far, except one person, me. In reality, I’m the only one that had to believe.
If you struggle with your weight like I did, pick a course of action, tell someone or everyone like I did, and start. There will be at least 2 that believe you can make it.
You and me.
It may feel uncomfortable at first but….
Remember comfort is overrated.
Get uncomfortable and take a chance and…
Press post then press forward.
My name is Alan Thomas and
I’m a writer, a speaker, and a life coach!
175 pounds here I come!!!

Filed Under: Daily Facebook Log

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